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radkin

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I'm at the point in my life where I'm getting fed up with going out and drinking for many reasons, but I'm a real fidgety person, I can't sit still and I can't stay in on friday and saturday nights, so I always end up going out because I can't think of anything else to do,

Do anyone in here have any suggestions of anything that I could get involved in that would make me use my time constructivley?

I wanted to sign up for spanish classes and I was hoping that they ran on a friday or saturday but they don't so that was a bit of a let down.

cheers
 
radkin said:
I'm at the point in my life where I'm getting fed up with going out and drinking for many reasons, but I'm a real fidgety person, I can't sit still and I can't stay in on friday and saturday nights, so I always end up going out because I can't think of anything else to do,

Do anyone in here have any suggestions of anything that I could get involved in that would make me use my time constructivley?

I wanted to sign up for spanish classes and I was hoping that they ran on a friday or saturday but they don't so that was a bit of a let down.

Internet is a good time waster, lol. Nah seriously, perhaps there are other classes you could take. Maybe there is a different school that has spanish those nights other than the one you looked at, or maybe they have some other class that might interest you.

Maybe you could get an extra job - which might not sound exciting but hey making some more money might be nice.

Are you into sports? Perhaps if they play at nights, you could go watch.

Hope that helps.
 
find a hobbie or trait of yourself that you think is good.don't drink yaself to death cus your bored go to the libary,or church shit you would least expect to be fun.or you can get a hooker
 
radkin said:
I'm at the point in my life where I'm getting fed up with going out and drinking for many reasons, but I'm a real fidgety person, I can't sit still and I can't stay in on friday and saturday nights, so I always end up going out because I can't think of anything else to do,

Do anyone in here have any suggestions of anything that I could get involved in that would make me use my time constructivley?

I wanted to sign up for spanish classes and I was hoping that they ran on a friday or saturday but they don't so that was a bit of a let down.

cheers
smoke weed instead of drinking. its a better feeling, you dont get violent, it wont kill you as fast, you are relaxed as hell... and it makes you more sociable. id much rather smoke weed than drink. i never had to give up alcohol because i never took it up in the first place cos i started smoking first
 
Wsup mayne

I don't smoke or drink at all, but I always go out. So that doesn't necessarily go hand in hand. If u wanna go out, there's always other options at a party, u can dance or mack up on sum females (never go wrong wit that).

But if ur sayin u can't b even in tha vicinity of alcohol - do other things. Ppl ball up at tha park on Friday n Saturday nites, go play ball or sumtin. Or maybe go to tha movies, n just kick it wit other friends that don't drink.

Peace!
Skilllz
 
radkin said:
I'm at the point in my life where I'm getting fed up with going out and drinking for many reasons, but I'm a real fidgety person, I can't sit still and I can't stay in on friday and saturday nights, so I always end up going out because I can't think of anything else to do,

Do anyone in here have any suggestions of anything that I could get involved in that would make me use my time constructivley?

I wanted to sign up for spanish classes and I was hoping that they ran on a friday or saturday but they don't so that was a bit of a let down.

cheers
Dude, i know what you mean. Life gets like that.
But i have a soloution for you. Take up latin dancing. THen you'll go out to a club environment where everyone is smiling and having fun and socialising but concentrating on dancing rather than alcohol. You'll meet great people and make great new friends and at the same time you'll open up a door to a world you've never seen before. I reccommend salsa dancing since it's the fastest growing and most lively of all the rest.

If you tell us what country (city) you're from i can probably even recommend dance studios.
 
oooh yeah, a guitar works also.
I spend hours playing my guitar.

But i think you have the same problem as me, You can't spend all your time behind your computer, or reading books, or writing a novel, or playing guitar, you need to be out there with people and socialising.
You have to go out (in my case, i have to go out every night). And it's not because there's nothing to do at home it's simply because you have a need to socialise and meet people. That's why i recommended dancing because you meet great people and it's on pretty much every night
 
The_One said:
oooh yeah, a guitar works also.
I spend hours playing my guitar.

But i think you have the same problem as me, You can't spend all your time behind your computer, or reading books, or writing a novel, or playing guitar, you need to be out there with people and socialising.
You have to go out (in my case, i have to go out every night). And it's not because there's nothing to do at home it's simply because you have a need to socialise and meet people. That's why i recommended dancing because you meet great people and it's on pretty much every night

this is exactly how i feel too. I go out wenever i can. it might be because im still young, but i get bored and lonely wen im alone. thats one of the main reasons im on this website. So that even wen im alone, im not actually alone.
 
The_One said:
oooh yeah, a guitar works also.
I spend hours playing my guitar.

But i think you have the same problem as me, You can't spend all your time behind your computer, or reading books, or writing a novel, or playing guitar, you need to be out there with people and socialising.
You have to go out (in my case, i have to go out every night). And it's not because there's nothing to do at home it's simply because you have a need to socialise and meet people. That's why i recommended dancing because you meet great people and it's on pretty much every night

Yeah you hit the nail on the head that's what I'm like I need to socialise, but salsa dancing sounds good I think I'm gonna try it and also I was thinking about trying some muay thai boxing anyone know of any good mauy thai clubs in the london area?
 

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