anoyne loose a friend, and how did u get over it? my friend died 2day from taking some drugs, and i'm just too shocked to beilve it, i can't get my mind straight, i just don't know right now
Loosing A Friend?
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I'm sorry to hear about that. May your friends soul rest in peace.
I have lost friends and it's not the best feeling. At first everything is surreal and you just can't believe it. Then when it kicks in and it hits you, you will be hit with grief. The time you spend grieving depends on the person you are. The only thing i can say is only time heals the pain.
Your friend is still alive through you, remember that.
I have lost friends and it's not the best feeling. At first everything is surreal and you just can't believe it. Then when it kicks in and it hits you, you will be hit with grief. The time you spend grieving depends on the person you are. The only thing i can say is only time heals the pain.
Your friend is still alive through you, remember that.
sorry to hear the news. R.I.P.
my friend almost died the other day too at the prom. she was drinking hennessy and got drunk til she got alcohol poisoning. had nobody noticed her, she wouldve died.
try listening to summer songs or playing sports. it works for me
my friend almost died the other day too at the prom. she was drinking hennessy and got drunk til she got alcohol poisoning. had nobody noticed her, she wouldve died.
try listening to summer songs or playing sports. it works for me
the sad thing is, it was supposedly because he took EX and drowned himself in the toilet puking, they found him with his head in the toilet, this is too shocking for me, i just can't accept the fact he's gone
STAGES OF GRIEF
Denial: Usually our first reaction to the loss of something we're attached to, is denial. Some people deny the death of a loved one so much that they won't let anyone refer to them as 'gone'. They will refer to imaginary conversations as if they had happened. What we all need to know is, denial is normal.
Anger: This stage of grief is probably the cause of the most pain from grief. Anger can cause deep and sometimes permanent wounds that are totally unnecessary. Let it go! You will experience anger in your grief. You may perceive that someone "harmed" you in some way. This stage of grief is probably a major cause of law suits, but, even if you win...all you get is money...you lose the years you allowed the anger to consume you. Try to Let it go. It will give you the ability to heal from your loss.
Bargaining: This is as strange a grief behavior as Denial. It's where we try to make deals to gain back what we lost. Some people try too fast after the loss of a spouse to "replace" them. This is the bargaining part of grief and is normal but it has potentially harmful consequences. It prevents you from healing from your grief and it opens you up to picking someone who is not your lost loved one. Once reality sets in, both people are usually deeply hurt. Try to finish processing your grief. I
Depression: This is the most dangerous stage of grief. Everyone goes through depression before they can heal from a major loss. It's possible to will yourself to death if you don't get over the depression stage of grief. With some people, depression is so deep, they don't wait for natural causes. The closer the attachment, the deeper and longer the depression will be. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, but for someone suffering a great loss, the tunnel is long and dark. Unless there is a suicide threat or they are about to lose their job, house, etc. it's better to let the grieving person work through their depression. When we're going through this part of the grief process, all of life seems pointless...but then we start to see some joyful things. We almost feel guilty when we laugh or enjoy something because the one we lost isn't there. Then we start to realize that they won't be there, in a physical sense, for the rest of our lives. We choose to be happy anyway...not happy because they're gone, but happy despite their absence, and happy because that's what they would have wanted.
Acceptance: This isn't all bells and fireworks. It's a decision to be at peace with the way things are. To know that no amount
r loss. We begin to accept that loss is part of life. It's not good or bad...just how it is. So we decide to go on, to find joy in our lives and to bring joy to the lives of others. The most noble sign of acceptance is when a grieving person, uses his empty spot as motivation to try to make the lives around him less empty.
Denial: Usually our first reaction to the loss of something we're attached to, is denial. Some people deny the death of a loved one so much that they won't let anyone refer to them as 'gone'. They will refer to imaginary conversations as if they had happened. What we all need to know is, denial is normal.
Anger: This stage of grief is probably the cause of the most pain from grief. Anger can cause deep and sometimes permanent wounds that are totally unnecessary. Let it go! You will experience anger in your grief. You may perceive that someone "harmed" you in some way. This stage of grief is probably a major cause of law suits, but, even if you win...all you get is money...you lose the years you allowed the anger to consume you. Try to Let it go. It will give you the ability to heal from your loss.
Bargaining: This is as strange a grief behavior as Denial. It's where we try to make deals to gain back what we lost. Some people try too fast after the loss of a spouse to "replace" them. This is the bargaining part of grief and is normal but it has potentially harmful consequences. It prevents you from healing from your grief and it opens you up to picking someone who is not your lost loved one. Once reality sets in, both people are usually deeply hurt. Try to finish processing your grief. I
Depression: This is the most dangerous stage of grief. Everyone goes through depression before they can heal from a major loss. It's possible to will yourself to death if you don't get over the depression stage of grief. With some people, depression is so deep, they don't wait for natural causes. The closer the attachment, the deeper and longer the depression will be. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, but for someone suffering a great loss, the tunnel is long and dark. Unless there is a suicide threat or they are about to lose their job, house, etc. it's better to let the grieving person work through their depression. When we're going through this part of the grief process, all of life seems pointless...but then we start to see some joyful things. We almost feel guilty when we laugh or enjoy something because the one we lost isn't there. Then we start to realize that they won't be there, in a physical sense, for the rest of our lives. We choose to be happy anyway...not happy because they're gone, but happy despite their absence, and happy because that's what they would have wanted.
Acceptance: This isn't all bells and fireworks. It's a decision to be at peace with the way things are. To know that no amount
r loss. We begin to accept that loss is part of life. It's not good or bad...just how it is. So we decide to go on, to find joy in our lives and to bring joy to the lives of others. The most noble sign of acceptance is when a grieving person, uses his empty spot as motivation to try to make the lives around him less empty.
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