masta247 said:haha i knowbut ppl around me changed and i cant find good hearted ppl. And everytime i try to be nice it ends really bad for me. Last month i had fistfights with 4 persons (i tryied peacfully but nobody listened so i just defended myself) + 3 of them lost and after few days they were chasin me with theyre homies (wich is a bitch move but what could i do?) 2 months ago whenever i tryed to help someone n got out of house i got jacked. So it resulted losing 3 mobile phones within 1 month. When i tryied to help my girlfriend with a man who was callin her bitch etc it resulted in turnin half of his hood against me. When i tryied to help my "friend" with a drug affair in school n when i was deffending him he told everyone that i was guilty so theykicked me from the school n now im in different school n i lost a year. So how could I be optimistic?
moral of the story:
Stop trying to be superman - and I mean that in the most un-offensive way.
Sometimes you can't just "help" everybody... people gotta sort out their own problems, otherwise they'll never learn. Just like you gotta sort out your own problems before trying to intervene in other peoples.
Notice how everytime you tried to help someone you ended up gettin fucked on?, do you think these people that you tried helping actually care?... probably not. Otherwise they would have let them hoods chase them and steal their phones, n they would have been fessed up n been kicked out of school instead of u... etc.
Focus on self.
I'm off to bed it's 3:30am, good luck with it man... read what i wrote carefully, people won't cut you some slack just cause your "nice", society and the world in general just doesnt work that way and probably never will on the contrary it works in the opposite fashion; because you're nice you're more susceptible to being shitted on.
Don't feel sorry for yourself, just toughen it out and hold your head a little, look out for yourself before anyone else.
Learn from your experiences and misfortunes.
Peace.
but ppl around me changed and i cant find good hearted ppl. And everytime i try to be nice it ends really bad for me. Last month i had fistfights with 4 persons (i tryied peacfully but nobody listened so i just defended myself) + 3 of them lost and after few days they were chasin me with theyre homies (wich is a bitch move but what could i do?) 2 months ago whenever i tryed to help someone n got out of house i got jacked. So it resulted losing 3 mobile phones within 1 month. When i tryied to help my girlfriend with a man who was callin her bitch etc it resulted in turnin half of his hood against me. When i tryied to help my "friend" with a drug affair in school n when i was deffending him he told everyone that i was guilty so theykicked me from the school n now im in different school n i lost a year. So how could I be optimistic?
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