How to be a Successful Husband

[S O F I]

Prepared by : Muhammad AlShareef

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu 'anhunn. It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8. Don't be little her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - radi Allahu 'anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife Aisha - radi Allahu 'anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best!

In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah - azza wa jall - to make your marriage successful. And Allah ta'ala knows best !!

For my boy Jurhum.

 

[Tru Principle]

be jealous you ignit half a poopoo

You need to suck on a "jelly-sickle"... racist caca.

evil vanilla man

Jerk off to this >

!!! ALERT ALERT !!! ^^^ NOT RARE

SO ...... FI?

GO ..... DIE!!!

You are bigot-boy! up ; up and awayyyyy

 

[S O F I]

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu 'anhunn. It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

This is the funniest one. Basically, you let the woman do whatever she wants and she'll know she's doing wrong because you're not going to tell her anything about it. Great.

 

[Rahim]

Good advice.

 

[S O F I]

Tru, those chemicals are for your biology project. Not for your personal consumption.

 

[Preach]

Tru, those chemicals are for your biology project. Not for your personal consumption.

i was thinking the same thing, lmao

 

[2PacThug4Life]

How to be a successful husband with a twist of allah .

I'm not buying designer pajamas.

 

[yak pac fatal]

How to be a successful husband with a twist of allah .

I'm not buying designer pajamas.

lol:thumb:

 

[Tru Principle]

Tru, those chemicals are for your biology project. Not for your personal consumption.

Shut up bigot, big it big it big it!

Your idols ^^^

 

[PuffnScruff]

is tru being serious when he calls sofi a racist or his he just being his usual weird self? i also dont think he knows what a racist is or what the term right wing means

 

[Tru Principle]

Naa-aaah.. I do tooooooooo

 

[Fataldawg]

9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife Aisha - radi Allahu 'anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

LOL

 

[Tru Principle]

Sofi, are you mad that you're related to this man?

^^ SOFI GRANDPA ^^

you white supremacist Nazi, fart he

 

[SicC]

Tru lighten up on the pictures or face a temp ban there fucking annoying and fucking up threads.

pz

 

[Tru Principle]

Aiite homie my bad, I shall stop and thanks for the warning.

Sofi, my bad for spamming your thread but I still believe you have devious motives and I shall not refrain from e-disliking you.


good day gentlemen and ladies (i.e : preach )

 

[Shahin]

This is good advice, just not for western marriages.

 

[SicC]

Aiite homie my bad, I shall stop and thanks for the warning.

Sofi, my bad for spamming your thread but I still believe you have devious motives and I shall not refrain from e-disliking you.


good day gentlemen and ladies (i.e : preach )

Thank you.

pz

 

[S O F I]

Sofi, are you mad that you're related to this man?

^^ SOFI GRANDPA ^^

you white supremacist Nazi, fart he

Not to ruin your joke....but I'm a Slav. We were considered 'sub-human' by Hitler.

Aiite homie my bad, I shall stop and thanks for the warning.

Sofi, my bad for spamming your thread but I still believe you have devious motives and I shall not refrain from e-disliking you.


good day gentlemen and ladies (i.e : preach )

LOL!

What are my motives again?

 

[Jurhum]

For my boy Jurhum.

Thanks. I will use them. Great advice, actually.