Just be glad, with your reputation, Jen didn't kick your ass.
lol that's true. that didn't occur to me.
haha i'm seeing a pattern here bra.
you get smashed, see a babe, and instead of annhialating that pussy the good old fashioned way, you come home and feel bad about yourself. nows a good time to buck the trend
yeah there is probably a pattern. it's not really "coming home and feeling bad about myself," i mean, i had a really fun night last night. it was a blast. it's more like, attempting to think as rationally as i can while intoxicated. so i can see where it might come off that way, but the fact that i'm drunk kind of just intensifies the feelings more. if i had been sober all night drinking poland spring water, i probably wouldn't have thought much about anything. but you're right, it isn't a bad time to buck the trend.
I want to smack you sometimes. You make things so difficult. TALK to her...!!! You don't have to hit on her to have a conversation. You should just talk to everyone. Even if they're not interested and/or ugly they might have hot friends. That's my thinking anyway.
haha. it's interesting how you say that i make things difficult because in my mind, i'm making it very simple. and i did talk to her last night. it was me and my brother and that liz girl he's kind of seeing and her friend jen that i was introduced to and spoke to. and we all played darts and laughed and talked all night. but random talking and having fun doesn't often give me much indication of where i would stand.
and i do talk to everyone; i'm a very social person and i get along with everyone. i dont' know. i was pretty drunk, hopped on the computer, made a stupid thread. that's what i do:amuse:
Don't get fooled by that mainstream value system. Whenever any of my friends gets caught up thinking - damn, she's out of my league I always tell them: "By what means"? She's better looking, so what? You're probably cooler, smarter etc. Is that some kind of looks contest that you have to be sexy and fit her looks?
I saw hundreds of pairs with sexy chicks and ugly males. I wondered what the fuck are they thinking. How silly I was, of course I was wrong. It's much more to relationships than that. Usually the biggest barrier is that you think that you're not her league and don't even bother trying or get stressed by her and act strange. Approach her and try to be yourself.
well said. that's good advice.
lol and euphanasia how the fuck can you think about all this "she's out of my league,i'm too ugly for her etc etc" drunk? i mean when you're drunk you don't give a fuck about everything that's why it's nice
lol well if i was totally beyond wasted and had no clue what i was doing then i wouldn't give a fuck about anything and i would never have been conscious enough to make this thread. but i was just drunk, albeit really drunk, but still lucid enough to know what was going on and not act like a jackass
there's not really a lot to understand. some people have computers in their room and check websites before they hit the sack. normally, i'm not ready for bed when i come home so i chill by the computer a bit and then watch some tv. mystery solved lol.
yeah!
and i just re-read my first post. i don't know how i was able to write so clearly after about 14 drinks.