Rukas said:
Im not disputing your post so will not quote it all, but this made me wonder. Are humans really a selfish breed, or is selfishness instilled in us through social conditioning?
If there was nothing to compete for, whether money, love, land, whatever, would humans still compete? I mention competition because I think it is a strong catalyst for selfishness.
Is our primal attitude one of sole survival or group preservation? And even if as pack animals we want the group to survive, is that still selfish?
For example, if we unselfishly love someone or a group of people and want them to succeed over other people because of what they mean to us; is that selfish of us or not? And is that consequently wrong?
Is selfishness the curse of humanity or is it the gift that drives us forward and makes us the dominant species on the planet?
thanks for bringing this up. you raise many interesting points. i'm not sure if i have the ability to answer your questions. i will say that i believe that survival and selfishness go hand in hand.
maybe selfishness is not the proper word for the inherent property that i am trying to explain, but for lack of a better term, i will continue to use it.
humans have exhibited group camaraderie more so than most breeds, but if history can be any measure of group dynamics, corruption and power struggle will no doubt set in at some point. i believe that these problems are rooted in selfishness.
i'm struggling to articulate exactly what i want to say, but i will bring up the story of Solomon's baby. (
http://www.law.harvard.edu/publications/evidenceiii/problems/1.htm)
the story is a good example of how it is nearly impossible to make a completely selfless decision. it can be argued that the mother who said not to cut the baby was acting "selfishly" because
she couldn't bear to live with the guilt of knowing that perhaps her child would die as a result of her decision.
but when talking about instinct, it is important to talk about "common sense." what we perceive as common sense is generally a good indicator of instinct, and common sense says that you would make any decision that would help to benefit you.