I think Muslims are definitely manipulated by their government to think Westerners are evil and hate them.
The thing is Islam makes it very easy to justify violence, torture and murder.
Other Religions are either more peaceful (Buddhism and modern Christianity) or more evolved socially (Christianity) and can't really be manipulated that way. Sure they did it in the crusades, but that was the Vatican and Kings twisting shit, and we've moved past that now. I dont think any sane Westerner believes in "Holy War" anymore, and certainly not enough of them to make an impact. We've socially evolved.
Islam really is brutal and preaches a lot of violence.
I mean, where Christianity teaches "turn the other cheek," Islam says "give them lashes" or worse.
And the problem with the world's conflict is outlined in this thread.
While Christianity evolved because people were allowed to question the Vatican and Bible and did so, Islam and Muslims did not.
As long as Muslims think Islam is 100% right and accurate they will continue acting like they lived 1400 years ago. You have people like ImmortalTech who HAVE socially changed and can recognize that difference, and then you have the lyrical starts who think it's alright to threaten me with caving my head in because any sort of discussion, criticism and thus progress is forbidden.
Actually Ruk, I haven't changed anything at all. Like all studies, Islam has a science behind it. Contrary to popular belief, simply reading the Quran or the Hadith is not enough to properly understand Islam. There's studies of Fiqh, Tafseer and so on that add perspective and give a more comprehensive understanding to the Quran and Hadith.
I feel that Muslims (general population and most scholars) don't fully educate themselves and thats the reason why Islam is so widely misunderstood. Whether it be socio-political motives to blind the masses or just plain ignorance.
Thats why I think, today a majority of Muslims have a very skewed understanding of Islam. And our ignorance is what ruins our image.
I take a different approach to things because I see so many Muslims that have no clue, they just go by what their parents told them or what their teacher taught them, and never bother going deeper into it. If Muslims are ignorant to their own religion. How can I sit here and be mad at non-muslims that are ignorant to it as well. Most non-muslims only see what we put on display. If we're acting like monkeys its only a logical to infer that Muslims act like monkeys cuz that's what their religious values has taught them.
Personally I like questioning things, and then studying to find answers, and that's whats strengthened my faith. There was times in my life you woulda never guessed I was a Muslim. Yea if you asked me I'd say I was Muslim, but my actions would suggest otherwise. I've had very different life experiences than many Muslims and Non Muslims in the west and the east. But thats another story...
In response to ur comment about, "Islam makes it very easy to justify violence, torture and murder." I agree with what you're saying due to the ignorance that surrounds certain verses of the Quran and certain Hadith. But as I mentioned earlier with a more comprehensive understanding to those verses and Hadith you'll begin to see that Islam doesn't advocate violence, torture or murder at all. I'm not one of those people that sit there and say "Islam is a religion of peace" because thats simply not true. Islam empowers people to defend themselves against oppression. It's just sad to see that today Muslim's use Islam to justify oppressing others and taking innocent lives.
Anyways I dont wanna talk to much, because this discussion is already all over the place..
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and now.. back on topic. Here's the sources as you asked for Ruk...
Sahih Bukhari 5.234
Narrated Aisha:
The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became Allright, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age.
... What she's describing in that Hadith is some of the many symptoms a girl goes through during puberty. In another source (although a weaker one, I figured I'd add it anyways)
"Tabari says that she was so young that she stayed in her parents' home and the marriage was consummated there later when she had reached puberty". - Karen Armstrong, Muhammad: A Biography of the Prophet, Harper San Francisco, 1992, page 157.
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Hope that clearifies some things
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Just my personal piece of advice to everyone on this board:
-Learn to respect others ideas, thoughts and beliefs. We all live completely separate lives, we all see things from very different eyes and we all are biased one way or another. Disrespecting someones beliefs will not convince them of anything nor will it make you look intelligent. And to those that feel disrespected, stop acting on emotion and getting defensive and attacking others. That wont make anyone start respecting you or your beliefs. In fact it'll strengthen their beliefs that ur an idiot just like they thought.
You read something that you find offensive and something that pisses you off, dont start typing up a msg thats most likely filled with just as much bullshit as the one ur responding to.. chill.. Let the emotions run through u, and use ur brain to formulate an appropriate response.
And I'm not just saying that cuz I think oh I'm mister perfect. I say some stupid shit too, just like the rest of you.
Peace