i think you people are all missing the main idea of what nail_polish was saying, she never said that the girl was any more special than anyone else, what she said was how she felt sad reading about the girl and that she died, how is that such a bad thing for her to want to talk about?
and pennypacker i have a hard time understanding how you can be so heartless to her, yes she signed her name on the line and she payed the ultimate price for that action, but if you were to die doing your job, or perhaps just taking the everyday risk of driving a car, i have a hard time believing that you would want us to disrespect you in death