I seen teachers teach on bullying and they be like ' If your being bullied tell somebody ,' Why include a third party?, that's just making things more difficult. They aint gonna tell someone on a thought that it will make things easier.
Kid coming home from the shop, with a loaf of bread for his Mum. Gang of bullies ahead. He scared, doesn't run 'cos he not want to look scared; keeps walking. Bullies surround him and begin intimidating him....... He thinks back to what his teachers told him .......'tell somebody'........ fucking good that's gonna do now aint it- and gets beat on.
His teachers are putting it into his mind that his solution relies on a third person rather than giving him the support he needs.
I'm sure some of you seen the adverts on TV. The ones with the spaghetti letters reading ' im being bullied ,' along with the 'fridge magnets' too, Diary. When are people gonna realise that the message they are putting out aint the right one. If a kid is getting bullied he needs to deal with it where and when he needs to. The last thing he needs to do is tell somebody.
Sorry if this is in the wrong forum btw