Bullying

#1
If we educated the young on the Art of War and also Animal Behaviour especially, I think children will learn more about the way the world is and their environment/ relationships a lot quicker. Eventually eradicating any instance of bullying at school. Rather than them withdrawing from everyone, being silent, of coming back with a machine gun for revenge. I seriously feel on this subject that more can be done to educate those coming up in this war of a world.
 
#3
the art of war...damnz...every kids needs to realise its not superior to ne 1..so it needs to get bullied once in a while...kinda like ur immunesystem...u get what am saying? once you know what it feels like...you know that u shouldnt do it :)..the trick is to bully the bullys back...
 
#5
I think Hurts' is pretty much right. I've always been of the opinion that, in younger kids, those who go around trying to fight all the time are the ones who've never tasted what it's like to be on the receiving end of a good beating.
 
#7
The bullies? Yes.

Once you've had a taste of your medicine you don't as readily give it out, even if it's just because you're scared you'll get hit with another dose of it rather than becuse you 'feel your victim's pain'.
 
#8
Who's going to beat the bullies though? The people who get bullied are bullied for a reason! The fact that they aren't violent, they may be simpletons!!! IE. physically and emotionally 'soft' people. Come on man! Not everyones an 'outlaw, westside, kick your ass with 1 hand and 30% power thug.
 
#9
I know you ain't.

But everyone can compensate for their weaknesses;
ie.
He's bigger/stronger than you - hit him with a bat and/or kick him in the nuts

If you ain't equipped to do that shit, get someone else to do it. Family, friends, crazy motherfucker from down the street who just loves whooping ass!

Where there's a will there's a way - & if not, tell some real thugs that the punk bully saw them the other day & had some shit to say.....
 
#10
CalcuoCuchicheo said:
I know you ain't.

But everyone can compensate for their weaknesses;
ie.
He's bigger/stronger than you - hit him with a bat and/or kick him in the nuts

If you ain't equipped to do that shit, get someone else to do it. Family, friends, crazy motherfucker from down the street who just loves whooping ass!

Where there's a will there's a way - & if not, tell some real thugs that the punk bully saw them the other day & had some shit to say.....
You can't eradicate violence through fear.

The answer to this, and to most of society's problems, is tolerance.
 
#11
But tolerance of who? The bullies & their bullying?

Btw, just to clarify, my opinion wasn't aimed at eradicating violence or bullying (we know both feats are impossible) it was just me expressing how I think an instance of bullying can be handled.
 

Sebastian

Well-Known Member
#12
Illuminattile said:
You can't eradicate violence through fear.

The answer to this, and to most of society's problems, is tolerance.
yes but tell a young kid something about tolerance and that what he does is wrong and can "damage" the other kid in a long run. i dont think the kid will understand what you are talking about. maybe a few kids but thats it...
 
#13
beReal said:
yes but tell a young kid something about tolerance and that what he does is wrong and can "damage" the other kid in a long run. i dont think the kid will understand what you are talking about. maybe a few kids but thats it...
If you can instill prejudice and hatred into a child's mind, you can probably instill tolerance. Obviously that's assuming the child has responsible parents and role models, and is responsive enough. It's not particularly practical, but it's the only way bullying could be stopped.
 
#15
I seen teachers teach on bullying and they be like ' If your being bullied tell somebody ,' Why include a third party?, that's just making things more difficult. They aint gonna tell someone on a thought that it will make things easier.

Kid coming home from the shop, with a loaf of bread for his Mum. Gang of bullies ahead. He scared, doesn't run 'cos he not want to look scared; keeps walking. Bullies surround him and begin intimidating him....... He thinks back to what his teachers told him .......'tell somebody'........ fucking good that's gonna do now aint it- and gets beat on.
His teachers are putting it into his mind that his solution relies on a third person rather than giving him the support he needs.

I'm sure some of you seen the adverts on TV. The ones with the spaghetti letters reading ' im being bullied ,' along with the 'fridge magnets' too, Diary. When are people gonna realise that the message they are putting out aint the right one. If a kid is getting bullied he needs to deal with it where and when he needs to. The last thing he needs to do is tell somebody.

Sorry if this is in the wrong forum btw
 
#16
-Daniel- said:
I seen teachers teach on bullying and they be like ' If your being bullied tell somebody ,' Why include a third party?, that's just making things more difficult. They aint gonna tell someone on a thought that it will make things easier.

Kid coming home from the shop, with a loaf of bread for his Mum. Gang of bullies ahead. He scared, doesn't run 'cos he not want to look scared; keeps walking. Bullies surround him and begin intimidating him....... He thinks back to what his teachers told him .......'tell somebody'........ fucking good that's gonna do now aint it- and gets beat on.
His teachers are putting it into his mind that his solution relies on a third person rather than giving him the support he needs.

I'm sure some of you seen the adverts on TV. The ones with the spaghetti letters reading ' im being bullied ,' along with the 'fridge magnets' too, Diary. When are people gonna realise that the message they are putting out aint the right one. If a kid is getting bullied he needs to deal with it where and when he needs to. The last thing he needs to do is tell somebody.

Sorry if this is in the wrong forum btw
So you'd rather they keep it bundled up inside until they end up slicing the bullies' throats with a breadknife? If you tell someone, they can help you. Dependence isn't a bad thing, you don't have to be completely self-sufficient.

If there's someone wandering around your neighbourhood with an AK-47, shooting his neighbours randomly, are you going to call the police or are you going to "deal with it" yourself?
 
#17
Lol, trust is a major part of social instincts. We all need somebody we can trust and share with. Telling someone of a bullying would be the correct decision. This would relieve you of a great deal of the worry and you would be in a position to receive advice on how to tackle the issue and also the slide in your self-esteem would be halted. As a few words of advice are like gems.
Its a cliche but it rings very true 'a problem shared is a problem halved'
 
#18
You tell someone and they go and tell the bully off or go to his perents or something. They dont teach you shit about bullying, why it happens and how to prevent it, self defense, they dont teach you shit like that. they just say tell us. they dont say "tell us, we will stop it happening and teach you about (animal) behaviour for future reference"

Im not surprised some people grow up to be killers if we aint teaching them anything about why it happens.
 
#19
-Daniel- said:
You tell someone and they go and tell the bully off or go to his perents or something. They dont teach you shit about bullying, why it happens and how to prevent it, self defense, they dont teach you shit like that. they just say tell us. they dont say "tell us, we will stop it happening and teach you about (animal) behaviour for future reference"

Im not surprised some people grow up to be killers if we aint teaching them anything about why it happens.
So why does bullying happen? What would you teach children that would solve this problem?
 
#20
I would teach them about Animal behaviour, as I believe that is where it stems from. The instinct to dominate someone, putting another down to make one feel better/more powerfull/Proud etc. If those so called shy/quiet kids understood that, they would know what to expect from other people.

Sure tell them to tell someone else, I don't mean to go against that notion, but if they do it shouldn't stop there. Its a life long lesson.

Educate the young for gods sake.
 

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